{"id":1714,"date":"2024-02-19T08:09:55","date_gmt":"2024-02-19T08:09:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/shag.co.uk\/blog\/?p=1714"},"modified":"2026-10-04T16:42:05","modified_gmt":"2026-10-04T16:42:05","slug":"how-to-stop-thinking-my-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/shag.co.uk\/blog\/how-to-stop-thinking-my-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Stop Thinking About Your Ex: Practical Steps After a Breakup"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>If you are trying to stop thinking about your ex, aim for a day with more room for your own life rather than a day with no memories at all. Remembering somebody does not mean you should get back together, contact them or start a new relationship immediately.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/mental-health\/feelings-symptoms-behaviours\/feelings-and-symptoms\/grief-bereavement-loss\/\">NHS guidance on grief and loss<\/a> includes the end of a relationship as a kind of loss. People respond differently, and there is no single correct sequence of feelings. You do not need to turn recovery into another deadline.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"union\"><p>FIND PEOPLE NEAR YOU<\/p><\/div><form class=\"registerForm\" id=\"register\" method=\"GET\" action=\"https:\/\/shag.co.uk\/dashboard\"><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"s1\" value=\"blog_shag\" \/><div><div class=\"form-group\"><label for=\"i_am\" >I'm a<\/label><select name=\"sex_seeking\" class=\"form-control\" aria-invalid=\"false\"><option value=\"male-female\">Man looking for women<\/option><option value=\"male-male\">Man looking for men\/option><option value=\"female-male\">Woman looking for men<\/option><option value=\"female-female\">Woman looking for women<\/option><\/select><\/div><div class=\"form-group\"><label for=\"province_id\">Location<\/label><select name=\"country_id\" class=\"form-control selectCountry\" id=\"select_country_id\" style=\"display: none\"><option value=\"13\" selected=\"\">UK<\/option><\/select><select name=\"province_id\" class=\"form-control\"><option value=\"476\">East Midlands - England<\/option><option value=\"477\">East Of England<\/option><option value=\"478\" selected>London<\/option><option value=\"479\">North East England<\/option><option value=\"480\">North West England<\/option><option value=\"481\">Northern Ireland<\/option><option value=\"482\">Scotland<\/option><option value=\"483\">South East England<\/option><option value=\"484\">South West England<\/option><option value=\"485\">Wales<\/option><option value=\"486\">West Midlands - England<\/option><option value=\"487\">Yorkshire &amp; The Humber - England<\/option><\/select><\/div><div id=\"getMessage\" class=\"getMessage\"><p class=\"boton\" style=\"margin-top:20px\"><button type=\"submit\" name=\"register\" class=\"btn\">JOIN NOW<\/button><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/form>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Notice what you are doing when the thoughts take over<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>A memory that appears while making breakfast is different from spending an hour rereading old messages. You cannot choose every thought that arrives, but you can review the activities that keep bringing you back to the relationship.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For one day, notice the practical trigger without judging yourself: opening their profile, asking a mutual friend for news, looking through photographs or keeping an evening free in case they call. Pick one of those habits to change. You do not have to reorganise your whole life at once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Make reminders less immediate<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You could mute social updates, archive a conversation or move photographs out of your everyday view. These are reversible options if deleting things feels too final. Ask mutual friends not to pass on dating updates about your ex unless there is a practical reason you need to know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do not use another account to check on them or ask friends to monitor them for you. If they have asked for no contact, respect it. A need for closure does not give either person unlimited access to the other.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"924\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Why-You-Cant-Stop-Thinking-About-Your-Ex.webp\" alt=\"Why You Can't Stop Thinking About Your Ex\" class=\"wp-image-1715\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Why-You-Cant-Stop-Thinking-About-Your-Ex.webp 640w, https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Why-You-Cant-Stop-Thinking-About-Your-Ex-208x300.webp 208w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Choose contact boundaries that fit your circumstances<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have no shared responsibilities, a period without optional contact may give you some space. Treat it as a boundary for yourself, not a countdown designed to make your ex miss you. There is no magic number of days that guarantees a particular result.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you share parenting, work or practical arrangements, \u201cnever speak again\u201d may be unrealistic. Where safe and appropriate, keep necessary conversations focused on the task, use a suitable channel and avoid reopening the breakup each time. Get relevant professional advice if arrangements are complicated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If there was abuse, stalking or fear, seek specialist support before making changes that could affect your safety. The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nhs.uk\/live-well\/getting-help-for-domestic-violence\/\">NHS domestic abuse page<\/a> lists UK services and advice about leaving safely.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Give an unanswered question a stopping point<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>You might keep returning to \u201cWhat if I had said something different?\u201d Try separating what you know from what you are guessing. For example: \u201cThey ended the relationship\u201d is a fact; \u201cNobody will want me again\u201d is a prediction, not something the breakup proves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you want to send a long message, write a private draft first and leave it unsent while you decide what you hope it will achieve. Would it resolve a practical matter, or are you relying on a reply to change how you feel? If the other person has set a boundary, do not send it.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Emotional-Healing.webp\" alt=\"Emotional Healing\" class=\"wp-image-1716\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Emotional-Healing.webp 640w, https:\/\/cdn.shag.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Emotional-Healing-300x200.webp 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Put something manageable back into your day<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The NHS recommends small goals, talking to someone you trust and looking after regular meals and physical activity after a loss. You do not have to perform a dramatic reinvention. An ordinary plan you can keep may be more useful than a packed schedule you cannot sustain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arrange a short walk with a friend, return to one activity you enjoyed or make a simple plan for the part of the evening you find hardest. Tell a friend what would help: \u201cCould we have dinner without analysing the breakup for the whole night?\u201d or \u201cI need someone to listen for a bit.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Date again because you want to meet someone<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Casual dating is an option if it suits you and the other person. It is not a treatment for heartbreak or a way to prove something to your ex. Be clear about what you can offer, especially if you are unsure about commitment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Before a date, ask whether you are interested in meeting this particular person and able to respect their expectations. You can take a break at any point. Our guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/shag.co.uk\/blog\/casual-dating\/\">casual dating<\/a> covers how to discuss intentions without promising more than you want.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"union\"><p>FIND PEOPLE NEAR YOU<\/p><\/div><form class=\"registerForm\" id=\"register\" method=\"GET\" action=\"https:\/\/shag.co.uk\/dashboard\"><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"s1\" value=\"blog_shag\" \/><div><div class=\"form-group\"><label for=\"i_am\" >I'm a<\/label><select name=\"sex_seeking\" class=\"form-control\" aria-invalid=\"false\"><option value=\"male-female\">Man looking for women<\/option><option value=\"male-male\">Man looking for men\/option><option value=\"female-male\">Woman looking for men<\/option><option value=\"female-female\">Woman looking for women<\/option><\/select><\/div><div class=\"form-group\"><label for=\"province_id\">Location<\/label><select name=\"country_id\" class=\"form-control selectCountry\" id=\"select_country_id\" style=\"display: none\"><option value=\"13\" selected=\"\">UK<\/option><\/select><select name=\"province_id\" class=\"form-control\"><option value=\"476\">East Midlands - England<\/option><option value=\"477\">East Of England<\/option><option value=\"478\" selected>London<\/option><option value=\"479\">North East England<\/option><option value=\"480\">North West England<\/option><option value=\"481\">Northern Ireland<\/option><option value=\"482\">Scotland<\/option><option value=\"483\">South East England<\/option><option value=\"484\">South West England<\/option><option value=\"485\">Wales<\/option><option value=\"486\">West Midlands - England<\/option><option value=\"487\">Yorkshire &amp; The Humber - England<\/option><\/select><\/div><div id=\"getMessage\" class=\"getMessage\"><p class=\"boton\" style=\"margin-top:20px\"><button type=\"submit\" name=\"register\" class=\"btn\">JOIN NOW<\/button><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/form>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">If the thoughts are interfering with everyday life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Occasional memories years later do not, by themselves, tell you what you should do about an old relationship. But if distress is affecting daily life, or you are struggling to cope, seek support. The NHS advises speaking to a GP if low mood lasts more than two weeks or the things you are trying are not helping.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You do not have to wait until you feel worse to ask for help. Choose one manageable step for today: put a reminder away, arrange a conversation with someone you trust, or contact a healthcare professional.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<div class=\"tmnf_excerpt clearfix\"><p>If you are trying to stop thinking about your ex, aim for a day with more room for your own life rather than a day with no memories at all. Remembering somebody does not mean you should get back together, contact them or start a new relationship immediately. 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